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The universal rules that govern my life

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THE UNIVERAL RULE THAT GOVERNS MY LIFE

FAQ - The Universal Rule that governs my life

How does the universal rule that governs my life work?

Is the Universal Rule the same as the law of attraction?

Why are my thoughts biased?

The universal rule that governs my life is simple: I do not see the world as it truly is, but as I perceive it to be. I view the world through my own narrow lenses.

My Compass, my brain, and my environment interact in such a way that I focus on what I believe to be true. Consequently, I see more of it around me, and it reinforces I am right to think so.
However, it’s not so much that I attract what I believe; rather, I notice what aligns with my beliefs. This reinforces the idea that I am correct in thinking that way, creating a self-perpetuating loop that feeds itself.

Typically, when I change my deep beliefs (and align my feelings leveraging my Compass), my surroundings seem to naturally evolve. This isn’t because the world itself has changed, but because my focus has shifted.

Understanding my patterns of thought helps clarify what I notice most and why I behave the way I do.
For example, if I believe the world is a jungle where I must fight to survive, I will notice competitive behaviors at work, arguments over the last item in a shop, news about rising theft in supermarkets, and other similar events. These seemingly unrelated clues will consistently point to the direction set by my Compass, strengthening my belief and its accompanying dominant emotion.
Living in a "wild jungle," I too will behave like a wild animal to survive, thinking that’s what it takes. This behavior will, in turn, generate reactions from others that validate my belief that the world is a jungle—without me realizing that I may be triggering these reactions through my own posture.

On the other hand, if I perceive the world as a "civilized jungle," I will remember and experience the same environment differently because my perception has changed. This new perspective will also lead me to adjust my behavior accordingly.

There is no universal truth.
The world is not as it seems, especially since everyone has their own perception of it.

I cannot assume that others share my view of the world. To truly understand what others think, the only way is to ask.

The two concepts share some common ground but are not entirely aligned. Simply put, the law of attraction suggests that our thoughts and feelings shape our reality. By focusing on positive or negative beliefs, we attract corresponding experiences into our lives.

In Thee Puzzle, this idea is expressed differently. While we agree that what we think (the Universal Rule) and what we feel most deeply (the Compass) influence how we perceive the world, we do not claim that we "attract" these experiences. Instead, we believe our attention is biased, leading us to notice what aligns with our thoughts and feelings.

By consciously and consistently changing how we perceive the world, we can transform how we live our lives. With Thee Puzzle, we emphasize having a more active role in shaping our experiences.

Throughout our lives, particularly during childhood, we go through numerous experiences. To make sense of them, as is natural for our brains, we create rational explanations for the events we encounter. From these interpretations, we develop our understanding of how the world operates—its causes and effects—and adjust our behaviors accordingly, either to fit in or reject what we dislike.

None of this happens consciously. We absorb these lessons as we grow, rarely questioning them, as the process feels natural and automatic.

As we mature, however, we often encounter discomfort or challenges. What once served us well and brought us to where we are can start to become a limitation.
For example, some children grow up as the center of attention in their families, learning to seek favors and receiving them with ease, which fosters confidence. Yet, as adults, such individuals may struggle when managing a team. They might expect everyone to serve them enthusiastically and without hesitation—a dynamic that works in a family setting but often falls short in a professional environment. This misalignment can lead to frustration on both sides.

The key is to recognize that we all have our own biased perspectives of the world. It’s essential to reevaluate and adjust our views when we realize that what once helped us is now holding us back. Life is dynamic, and it’s perfectly okay to change when we feel the need to grow.